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Is She Testing You

She’s Testing You – But Will You Pass or Fail?

Approaching women means you’re putting on your confidence and she’s putting on her filters. In order to categorize you into potential date versus friend zones, she’s going to administer a few tests – without even knowing she’s doing it consciously.

In The Tao of Badass, Joshua Pellicer explains the ritual a woman goes through when you approach her – how she’s feeling you out for cracks in potential relationship or hookup material.

Women put you through a quality check and if you fail the first one you do not get to go on to the second quality check.

One of these checkpoints is to see how secure you are in your gender role. Women want a man that’s strong and firm, but not one who acts like a controlling jerk. There is a fine line between being kind and Women want a man that’s kind and compassionate but not one that acts like a wuss – there’s a fine line.

So what she’s doing with the checkpoints is to see what happens when she pushes you. Can she push and you’ll follow? Can she push and you erupt? A bad reaction to her checkpoint means you aren’t getting any further with her.

While women want a man who’ll be considerate of them and their needs and wants, they don’t want a man they can lead around by the nose.

The first test will be to see how easy you are to control. Josh shows you specific ways she’s going to test your male gender role so that you can see it coming ahead of time.

The second checkpoint will be a test of your ability to handle women. The women you meet want a man who’s used to dating (even if you’re not), who can show that he has experience (even if you don’t) so that she’s not about to get involved with someone inferior to her.

Now if you react a certain way, you’re going to blow your chance. You have to know how to react in order to make it past these checkpoints.

The Tao of Badass guides you through this maze of tests.

There are some key responses that are vital for success that you should know so that you can handle the flirty banter that can be sarcastic and maybe challenging in tone. These responses from you will be the deciding factor of how you’re going to cut it in a woman’s eyes.

It’s okay if you don’t know how to pass these checkpoints or what the right responses are. It’s easy to learn the ropes through the teaching of Tao of Badass – which has an initial eBook you can download right now and a membership area so you can get even better at strategically mastering the role of being a guy women can’t refuse.

With this guide to walk you through that difficult beginning stage of a potential relationship, you’ll learn what women want, how to bring it – and you’ll become more confident than ever as you approach women.